I want my brother to inherit my estate. I've three other siblings. Do I need an attorney? What could go wrong? (2024)

By Quentin Fottrell

'I own my own house and car. I have a couple of investment accounts, a savings account and a pension.'

Dear Quentin,

I am in my 60s -- a widow with no kids, but a big extended family. I own my own house and car. I have a couple of investment accounts, a savings account and a pension. I have listed one of my brothers as beneficiary for all of my assets.

What can I do to make it easier for my brother to settle my estate after I am gone? I have four siblings, and I know for a fact that there won't be any issues or squabbles between them.

After reading all your Moneyist letters about this kind of thing, I am even more confused. Do I actually need a trust and estates attorney? What do you advise I do?

Elder Sister

Related: What happens to credit-card debt after you die? Will my mother's IRA be used to pay off her personal loans?

Dear Elder Sister,

Assume what can go wrong, will go wrong.

It's always better to hire a legal representative now than to wait for something to go wrong, and have to clean up a mess afterwards. It could cost you $1,000 or more, but it could buy you peace of mind, and save your family thousands of dollars in lawyers' fees, if there was a legal dispute. For example, lawyers sometimes recommend naming people who you do not wish to inherit from your estate, so it is clear that they were not forgotten and/or leaving them a small gift for the same reason.

I appreciate your optimism that leaving your house, retirement accounts, savings and other assets to one sibling will not result in a debacle after you're gone -- that is, assuming you predecease your siblings. You know your family better than I do, but money can change the dynamic in a relationship. Inheritances can reignite old family rivalries, or even create new ones. If you have a large estate or even a small one, there is no reason to skimp on an attorney.

The best way to ensure your will is not challenged is to make it properly. I recently spoke to a trust and estates attorney who told me she had a client with a multimillion-dollar fortune. Her client had done everything by the book and, to be extra careful, kept his will in the same envelope in which it had been sent to him. He had planned to put the will in a safe-deposit box, but forgot to do one thing: sign it.

Too many things can go wrong. It's not worth writing a will on the cheap, if you can afford not to, or downloading a template from the internet. And don't forget to make provisions for what happens while you are still alive. Arguably, this is even more important. Designate someone in your life to have power of attorney to make financial decisions should you become incapacitated, and do the same with medical power of attorney so the person can make healthcare decisions you've determined ahead of time.

There are many reasons to challenge a will, but the onus is on the third party to prove malfeasance, or simply to point out a glaring error that renders the will invalid. A person making a will or signing a power of attorney, for instance, must have "testamentary capacity" -- and they must not be under or subject to duress, restraint, fraud or undue influence. It's best not to give anyone the glimmer of a reason to mount a challenge.

When so much can go wrong, leave nothing to chance.

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I want my brother to inherit my estate. I've three other siblings. Do I need an attorney? What could go wrong? (2024)

FAQs

What happens when three siblings inherit a house? ›

Generally, between siblings, you would each own an equal share of a house. Two siblings may inherit a house 50/50 and three siblings would each inherit ⅓.

What if my brother won't give me my inheritance? ›

My brother won't give me my inheritance

Engaging a qualified estate attorney can guide you through the legal process, ensuring you receive what you're entitled to. Withholding inheritance can have legal consequences, and your attorney can help protect your rights.

How does inheritance work for siblings? ›

When siblings are legally determined to be the surviving kin highest in the order of succession, they will inherit the assets in their deceased sibling's Estate. And they inherit it equally. If there is one surviving sibling, the entire Estate will go to them.

How do you manage inherited property between siblings? ›

Either sell the property (if the will or trust permits you to do so) or divide the property according to the terms of the will or trust. Divide the proceeds from the sale (if applicable) among siblings in accordance with the percentage of each's ownership interest.

What happens if one sibling wants to sell and the other doesn't? ›

Involving the court is a last resort for most people, but if you and your sibling can't reach an agreement on what to do with the property, a partition suit may be needed. Partition lawsuits ask the judge to order the home's sale in order to terminate the co-ownership – but the legal process is rarely that simple.

How to resolve family conflict over inheritance? ›

Strategies parents can implement include expressing their wishes in a will, setting up a trust, using a non-sibling as executor or trustee, and giving gifts during their lifetime. After a parent dies, siblings can use a mediator, split the proceeds after liquidating assets, and defer to an independent fiduciary.

Can you sue your sibling for inheritance? ›

Yes, siblings, including brothers, have the legal right to file a lawsuit if they believe their inheritance rights have been compromised due to undue influence or changes in the will. If there's suspicion that the will was tampered with malicious intent, they may challenge the will's validity in court.

What to do if a sibling steals your inheritance? ›

Recovering Stolen Inheritance: If you believe your sister has unfairly taken your inheritance, the most common recourse is to file a civil case. Additionally, if the circ*mstances warrant it, you can also consider pursuing a criminal case with the police.

What is the best way to divide up estate things for siblings? ›

Give the house, the land or the business to just one child and make up the difference with a monetary share for the others. Alternatively, stipulate that the asset be sold and the proceeds divided evenly. That way, the one who really wants the asset can buy the others out.”

Should inheritance be distributed equally between siblings? ›

Should Each Child Get the Same Inheritance? Dividing up your estate and giving each of your kids an equal share may make the most sense if their histories and circ*mstances are similar—that is, they have received similar support from you in the past, they are responsible, and they are emotionally and mentally capable.

Why do siblings fight over inheritance? ›

Common Reasons Siblings Fight Over Inheritance

Surprises in the will: If the family hasn't seen the will, there may be surprises that they weren't expecting and may think are unfair. Unequal distribution: If a parent leaves more of their estate to one child than another, it can cause infighting.

What happens if three siblings inherit a house? ›

For example, if 3 siblings inherit property together, each sibling may own one-third of the property. Or, they may own different percentages of the property, such as two siblings holding 40% each and one owning 20%. Importantly, tenants in common have the right to sell, transfer, or mortgage their share independently.

How to pass on an inheritance without wrecking your family? ›

One good way is to leave the inheritance in a trust. The trust can be set up with some provisions, such as making distributions over time. A trust can also remove the issue of probate, allowing the inheritance to pass without issue.

What is an inheritance buyout? ›

A sibling inheritance buyout is when one sibling agrees to buy out the others to take sole ownership of the property. The buyout can be structured in various ways, but typically, the sibling who wants to keep the property will offer to pay the other siblings a fair market value for their share.

How does inheriting a house with siblings affect taxes? ›

Capital gains tax on the jointly owned inherited property will be evenly split, based on the ownership stake, for each owner that inherited a piece of that property. Capital gains taxes are paid when you sell an asset. They are levied only on the profits (if any) that you make from this sale.

What happens if one of three beneficiaries dies? ›

If you have named more than one primary beneficiary, or if the primary beneficiary is deceased and you have more than one contingent beneficiary and one of them has died, then the death benefit proceeds from your policy will typically be redistributed among the remaining beneficiaries.

How does a sibling buy out of an inherited house? ›

One option is to utilize an estate or trust loan lender, which specializes in short-term financing for inherited property buyouts. Loans for estates are commonly referred to as probate loans as the estate typically needs to go through the probate process.

What happens when a beneficiary is living in an inherited house? ›

You can find a solution allowing the beneficiary to continue living in the house while addressing financial or legal issues. This could include renting the house to the beneficiary, selling the house and splitting the proceeds, or other arrangements.

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